Win Back Ex Boyfriend Girlfriend Husbands Wives - Simply And Quickly

Is this what you really want? You can win back ex husbands, boyfriends, wives, girlfriends, whatever it is you lost. You just need a lesson in human nature. You can stack the deck in your favor, if you know what to say and do.
We need to first analyze your relationship. If you were an exclusive couple for less than 6 months, you need to just move on.. Let it go, and find someone else. If your history together was longer, you can win back an ex with a carefully orchestrated plan.
Here is an important point, your ex does not want to be alone. People are pack animals, and want a mate by nature. It is not too late if they have invested time and emotion with you. Life is full of paradoxes, and here is a big one. If you want to win back an ex, you have to pretend you do not want them.
Here is the first step, call your ex and agree with the break up, tell them it was a good idea and for the best. Then do not elaborate, do not go further, do not explain, and whatever you do, do not tell them you want to be friends. Simply let them believe it is completely over.
This next step is, make no contact for three to four weeks. No texting, comments on MySpace, email, asking their friends about them,nothing. They will miss you the most at about three weeks. This is when they are the most vulnerable. If your ex contacts you in the three weeks of silence, great. But you must initiate contact for three or four weeks, unless you made a fool of yourself at the beginning, then give it a couple extra weeks.
Now call them and invite them for an innocent rendezvous, like coffee or lunch. Make sure you keep it at a short time limit. You want your ex to know they can escape, no party, family function, etc. When you meet keep it light. Act like you are meeting an old friend, because you are. You know how to make them laugh, do it. Since they haven't seen you, they have forgotten most of your faults and only remember the fun you had together.
Play on that, recall pleasant memories to your ex. This is important. Talk like your ex. Use the same words, speed and tone that they do. Do they use picture words, sound words, or feeling words? (Like I see (picture) what you're saying. I hear (sound) what you're saying. What your saying feels good (feeling).) Use these same kinds of words back to them in the same pitch, tone, and tempo that they do.
Match and mirror their body language. If they have their arms crossed, cross yours. If they use their right hand to make a gesture, use your left. Be a little subtle and don't make it obvious, and they will never catch on. When you talk, talk at the same rate they are breathing, breathe with them. After a couple minutes of pacing them, it is time to test and lead. Touch your glass, and see if they touch theirs. If they do, you have built enough rapport to clinch them back into your life.
Take it slow and learn more about human nature, you only have three weeks to learn everything you need to know. Develop a plan and learn all the secret psychological tricks of the trade.

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