Win Back Ex Boyfriend Girlfriend Husbands Wives - It's Easier Than You Think

Are you completely sure you want to do this? You can win back ex husbands, wives, boyfriends, girlfriends, whatever it is you lost. You just need a lesson in human nature. There are certain things you can do and say, that make it nearly impossible for someone you have a connection with to withstand.
First let's discuss your relationship. If you were only together for 6 months or less, they probably are simply not interested.. Let it go, and find someone else. If you had longer than 6 months together, you can win back an ex with a well defined plan of action.
Here is an important point, your ex does not want to be alone. Humans are pack animals, and they need acceptance by nature. It is not too late if they have invested time and emotion with you. Life is full of paradoxes, and here is a big one. If you want to win back an ex, you have to pretend you do not want them.
What I mean is this, call your ex and tell them you agree with the break up and it was a good idea. Then do not go further, do not explain, do not elaborate, and whatever you do, do not tell them you want to be friends. Allow them to believe it is over.
Next item, make no contact for three to four weeks. No comments on MySpace, texting, email, asking their friends about them,nothing. They will miss you the most at about three weeks. This is when they are the most vulnerable. If they call you, fine, but do not make first contact for three to four weeks (maybe a couple weeks longer if you behaved badly when you first broke up).
Now call them, do not mention the relationship or the break up, ask them to meet you for coffee or lunch. Make sure you keep it at a short time limit. You want your ex to know they can escape, no party, family function, etc. When you meet keep it light. Act like you are meeting an old friend, because you are. With your history together, you know how to make your ex laugh, use that. The chances are they will have forgotten your faults and only remember the good times you had together.
Have your ex remember some of the pleasant memories you had together. This is important. You know your ex better than you think, pay attention to HOW they talk, notice the speed, tone and inflection they use. Do they use picture words, sound words, or feeling words? (Like I see (picture) what you're saying. I hear (sound) what you're saying. What your saying feels good (feeling).) Use these same kinds of words back to them in the same pitch, tone, and tempo that they do.
Pretend you are a mirror to their body language. If they have their arms crossed, cross yours. If they use their right hand to make a gesture, use your left. Be a little subtle and don't make it obvious, and they will never catch on. Breath at the same rate that they do. After a couple minutes of pacing them, it is time to test and lead. Touch your arm, and see if they touch theirs. Once they follow your lead, you have built enough rapport and trust to get them slowly back into your life, congratulations.
Take it slow and learn more about human nature, you only have three weeks to learn everything you need to know. Develop a plan and learn all the secret psychological tricks of the trade.

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