4 Things You May Have Done To Drive Away Your Girlfriend

The vast majority of the time when your girlfriend leaves you, it's generally because of something really stupid you either said or did. That should probably come as no surprise to you. What may be surprising to learn is that dealing with these insane creatures called women doesn't have to be so dang hard, not if you know what you've been doing wrong and can fix it!

That's why I'm writing this for you, as a friendly man-to-man resource for a few of the things we frequently do that tick our ladies off and make them want to leave. Sure there are women nice enough to painstakingly list off our every faults for us, but not every guy is so lucky as to have one. Not to worry, bro...I will help you through this madness.

1) First main thing that girls really despise when men do is when they don't pay attention to them. This really drives a girl nutso, because it can feel like they require our every waking moment to be devoted to them and only them, or else we don't love them. Of course this assumption is completely false, but girls seem to need us to pay constant attention to them.

NOT paying constant attention to them makes them think we don't love them, but when we DO pay constant attention to them they start acting like we're freaks. There IS a happy medium somewhere in there, but the exact level varies for each girl. Best solution here is to simply listen to her and figure out what she specifically needs, attention-wise.

2) Women have a term they use that as far as I can tell doesn't really mean much. The term is "emotionally supportive," and as best as I can cipher it basically refers to a man who can read women's minds and know exactly what they want you to do or say at all the right times to make her feel loved. Basically they need a guy who listens well enough to know her as well as she knows herself.

There are a few lucky guys out there who come by this naturally, and those are the guys who have "game." Women naturally love these fellas, because the boys naturally understand the women and what makes them happy. What to say, what to do...it varies from woman to woman, and only astute observation and attention paid to detail can make up for a lack of natural talent here.

3) Of course, there's the hot-button issue of "cheating" on one another. When girls do it to their boyfriend, it's not nearly as bad as when a guy does it to his girl...at least by their standards. Heck, most of us know how bad it is, but as I'm sure I've said before...we're idiots. It gets even worse when you realize exactly what constitutes "cheating" in the female mind.

Forget that other women exist. From now on, all women other than your girlfriend should be seen like you see your mother. She's not a woman, right? She's your mother. You do not TALK to other women. You do not LOOK at other women. You do not THINK ABOUT other women. You do not FANTASIZE about other women. All of these things are considered cheating and will get you slaughtered by a mob of angry girls.

4) When you're living with a woman, helping around the house can become a sore point...she expects you to do it, and you don't want to. I understand not wanting to get up and clean stuff or take out the trash, but you have to really consider whether or not it's worth ticking your girlfriend off. Take my advice...just get up off your lazy butt and do a few chores.

So how does this help you if you've already broken up with her? Well, once you can identify the things you've done wrong in the past, you can start working to avoid doing them in the future. Whether it's with your now-ex-girlfriend or with a new woman, you'll be much less likely to make her leave again if you can keep from making these idiot classic "guy" blunders.

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